![]() I redid my passport the other last week this time I did everyhting by the book. But I don't judge, I wish I could understand better than I currently am able to do.Ībout my summer trip to Korea everything is starting to fall into place I'm starting to collect enough money for the ticket and some pocket money. ![]() so there's a negative, something that never will happen at least not for me. If I did, I would basically be all alone. In my case there really is no reason that I could think off that would make me want to take step. I can understand why, but as I see it there has to be a very good reason for someone to cut all ties with their families (be it birth family, foster family or adoptive family). I don't blame those that do or thinks negatively about adoption. I have a lot of Swedishness but also a lot of if not Koreaness then Asianess.Īnd again I can partially understand why adoptees might feel inclined to cut their adoptive parents off. I'm Korean, born not raised and raised in Sweden. I want to be egoistic in some ways I might seem to in other ways not. But the major thing here is that it's my life and I should try to live my life the way I'd like to not the way I think I should. I'm sorry I can't, maybe that to is not understandable. To some it seems unimaginable, to other it might seem like I need to make final decision. I can't choose between the ones that gave me life and the ones that cared for me, they're equally important to me. I'm not a radical, I'd like to keep my adoptive family even though I recently has reconnected or connected with my birth family. ![]() But now I realize I shouldn't push it that far. I once imagined that I would cut all ties with my adoptive family since I first of all have another birth family, secondly it was due to my reunion. ![]()
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